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Skills For Anxiety, Depression, Boundaries, And Emotional Overwhelm

Big emotions can be overwhelming, leaving you feeling reactive and off balance. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (also known as DBT) teaches skills to help you manage intense emotions and build coping strategies so that you can feel more grounded. DBT supports anxiety, depression, relationship stress, people pleasing, and emotional overwhelm.

At KLS Collective, we provide remote DBT-informed therapy across New York. While relationship stress may bring you to therapy, our DBT services focus on individual work—communication, boundaries, and regulating emotions in relationships.

What DBT Can Help With

DBT can be helpful if you are struggling with any of the following:
  • Anxiety that feels difficult to calm

  • Depression and low motivation

  • Emotional sensitivity

  • Feeling overwhelmed or reactive

  • Difficulty drawing boundaries

  • People pleasing

  • Relationship stress

  • Fear of conflict

  • Self-criticism and shame

  • Impulsive reactions

  • Feeling stuck between shutting down and blowing up

DBT does not expect you to stop having emotions, as that is neither respectful nor realistic. Instead, it guides you to notice what is going on, slow things down, and respond in a way that is more consistent with your values.
DBT Help

KLS Collective Therapy Group Therapist Team

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Geralyn Valonzo

LCSW

Experienced in: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Person Centered Therapy, Supportive Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Trauma Informed Therapy

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Matthew Louie

LMSW

Experienced in: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Person Centered Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Supportive Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy.

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Liz Davis

LMSW

Experienced in: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Person Centered Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma Informed Care, Supportive Therapy, Sleep Therapy.

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Marcy Ruland

LCSW

Experienced in: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Person Centered Therapy, Humanistic, Positive Psychology, Strengths-Based Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Supportive Therapy, Culturally Sensitive, Motivational Interviewing.

How DBT Works

DBT focuses on building skills in four areas:

Mindfulness

Being present helps you notice your thoughts, emotions, and how you feel in your body, making you more aware of your reactions. This awareness is useful during anxiety, depression, or negative cycles.
Before you can feel more in control over your emotions, it’s important to understand them. DBT helps you reduce emotional intensity, spot patterns, and take care of yourself before reaching a breaking point.

Building resilience, along with distress tolerance, helps you navigate hard times. Rather than reacting in ways that create problems, you feel more insightful and positive. These skills help during conflict, panic, grief, rejection, burnout, or when life feels intense.

This skill helps communication and defining boundaries. You learn to ask for what you need, say no, and navigate conflict in relationships while staying authentic.

DBT For Anxiety

Anxiety can make everything come across as urgent. DBT helps you pause, notice your thoughts, and regain control. When you feel steadier, it’s easier to take actions that support your goals.

Therapy may focus on:

  • Noticing and understanding anxiety patterns

  • Learning how to help yourself feel grounded

  • Reducing avoidance

  • Gaining comfort in how you respond to uncertainty

  • Growing confidence in making choices based on values instead of on doubts or insecurity

DBT for Depression

DBT For Depression

Depression can leave you feeling heavy, flat, and disconnected. DBT helps you identify small, realistic steps to increase connection, even when you have low energy and motivation.

Therapy may focus on:

  • Building structure

  • Reducing isolation

  • Understanding mood patterns

  • Practicing self-compassion

  • Increasing meaningful activity

  • Managing hopeless or self-critical thoughts

DBT For Boundaries And Relationships

Therapy helps you manage feeling responsible for others’ feelings. DBT guides you to set boundaries without overclarifying, shutting down, apologizing, or escaping.

Therapy may focus on:

  • Feeling confident in saying no

  • Communicating your needs

  • Working through conflict

  • Reducing tendencies to people-please

  • Prioritizing showing up for yourself with respect

Start DBT Therapy In New York

If anxiety, depression, emotional overwhelm, or boundary struggles make life harder, DBT-informed therapy with KLS Collective can help you gain skills, understand yourself, and move through life with steadiness.

Get in touch to learn more about DBT therapy for individuals in New York.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you offer in-person Dialectical Behavior Therapy?

No. We offer online therapy sessions, so you can access care from anywhere in New York.

What can I expect during my first session?

Your first session will be an opportunity for you and your KLS Collective therapist to get to know one another. They’ll also discuss your goals, concerns, and what you hope to achieve through therapy. The first session helps your therapist create an approach to best support you.

Do you accept insurance? What is the cost out-of-pocket?

Our rates vary depending on the type of service and duration of the session. In addition to flexible out-of-pocket payment options, KLS Collective Therapists are also in network with MVP, CDPHP, Aetna, and Fidelis insurance providers. Additionally, we also offer a sliding scale for clients in need.

Does insurance cover online therapy?

While coverage depends on your health plan and benefits, many insurance providers do cover online therapy. We recommend checking with your insurance provider to see whether online talk therapy services are included in your plan. As mentioned, we do offer a sliding scale for clients paying out-of-pocket.

What is the cancellation policy for your mental health services?

To help us manage our schedule and accommodate other appointment requests, we require at least 24 hours’ notice to cancel your individual therapy appointment. Accordingly, late cancellations or missed appointments may incur a fee.

Are sessions confidential?

Yes, all sessions with therapists at KLS Collective Group are confidential. With this in mind, we adhere to strict privacy and confidentiality guidelines in compliance with HIPAA regulations.

Who can benefit from Dialectical Behavior Therapy?

There are many people who can benefit from DBT. If you’re feeling emotionally overwhelmed, reactive, stuck in some unhealthy relationship patterns, or simply not like your full self, DBT can most likely help.

Additionally, DBT can help people who have borderline personality disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, eating disorders, or anxiety and depression. Our therapists at KLS Collective are here to work with you.

Is Dialectical Behavioral Therapy only used for severe mental health concerns?

No. While DBT was originally developed to support people experiencing very intense emotional distress, it is now commonly used for a wide range of mental health conditions. In fact, DBT can support concerns related to anxiety, depression, relationship stress, emotional overwhelm, post-traumatic stress disorder, and borderline personality disorder. Many of our patients use DBT to help build stronger emotional regulation and feel more grounded during stressful situations in their lives.

Can DBT support people struggling with self-criticism or perfectionism?

Yes. Our DBT therapists at KLS Collective often help clients recognize patterns that keep them stuck in cycles related to shame, self-criticism, avoidance, or even emotional reactivity. Therapy can help you respond to yourself with much more balance and level-headedness, while building healthier ways to navigate your stress, relationships, and difficult emotions. DBT can also support people working through concerns connected to eating disorders or chronic people-pleasing patterns.

What are DBT skills training sessions designed to teach?

DBT skills training focuses on practical tools you can use in your everyday life. Sessions often help our clients at KLS Collective strengthen their coping skills related to their personal boundaries, emotional awareness, communication, distress tolerance, and mindfulness. Many people can use these skills to navigate life’s challenges with much more steadiness and confidence instead of feeling controlled by emotional reactions.

How do your DBT therapists help with relationship stress and emotional overwhelm?

Our DBT therapists help clients better understand emotional patterns, communication habits, and reactions that create stress in relationships. Therapy often focuses on evidence-based practices that support healthier boundaries, stronger communication, and ways to strengthen relationships without losing your sense of self. DBT can also support individuals struggling with potential self-harm/self-harming behavior connected to emotional overwhelm.

Does KLS Collective offer group therapy or skills groups for DBT?

No. At KLS Collective, we currently focus on individual DBT-informed therapy rather than group therapy or skills groups. Sessions are always personalized to your specific goals, relationships, emotional experiences, and challenges, so you can receive support that feels more directly connected to your life.